The 2 Easy Hacks That Make It Easy For Me to Stay Impeccable With My Word
While entrepreneurs are my kinda people, I find many of them struggle to be impeccable with their word. I find that, despite the best of intentions, they often over commit, say they’ll do things…but don’t, promise they’ll complete something…but won’t, offer deadlines that pass….without mention, and drop commitments…simply because they forget. Sporadic, inconsistent fulfillment of […]
The Super-Fast, 3-Step, Out-of-Body Negative-Emotion Hack (AKA Free Yourself From Any Bad Feeling In Less Than 2 Minutes)
Not everyone is able to work with my team to completely clear out the root causes of why they repeatedly experience counterproductive, “bad” feelings. So, next time you experience an emotion you can’t seem to shake, try this mental band-aid for a bit of temporary relief: THE UNDER-2-MINUTES OUT-OF-BODY EMOTION-DISSOLVING HACK STEP 1 Sit somewhere […]
How to Give REALLY Great Feedback
One of the most common reasons people don’t like to offer feedback (or have difficult conversations) is because: *** they fear the other person will react “badly” *** (where reacting badly can be defined as reacting with anger, resentment, defensiveness, etc.) That’s why, when giving feedback as a team, we’re always looking to have the […]
How a Man In His 40s Who’d Been Lazy His ENTIRE LIFE Discovered (In 40 Minutes) He Was Never, In Fact, Lazy at All…
In the past two weeks, I’ve been working 1:1 with an incredible, powerful Influencer (yes — Influencer with a capital “I” — odds are, you *absolutely* know this guy…). Despite all his incredible successes, his companies, and his connections, in our first conversation he confessed he was actually nervous about his future and his happiness […]
Most of Us Have it All Backwards
If we fear we’re a failure, we’ll find evidence of it. If we fear a spouse isn’t faithful, we’ll find evidence of it. If we think our business is going to fail, we’ll see evidence of it. And we’ll see/find evidence everywhere. Example: I know a fellow who had a 100% close rate on his […]
What I Ask INSTEAD OF “So, What Do You Do?”
Meeting new people becomes a far more enjoyable, much less daunting endeavor when you simply show up with deep curiosity and a smattering of questions that AREN’T… “So, what do you do?”. The variations of questions I like to sprinkle into my conversations when meeting someone for the first time are ones that, more often […]
9 Years of Massive Guilt Dissolved in 25 Minutes While Sitting on a Bed in a Dark Bedroom
A couple of months ago I attended a personal development event hosted at a private home in Denver. The event wrapped up, and people started leaving. I walked out into the living room and saw a beautiful young woman curled up into a ball, weeping uncontrollably in an overstuffed armchair. I walked over to her, […]
How To Have It All…Without Planning It In Advance.
IF YOU DON’T HAVE IT ALL PLANNED OUT, YOU’RE FUCKED. This seems to be an underlying — yet dominating — belief held by SO many people in business. “I don’t know HOW to grow my business to 7 figures…” “I’m not clear on where I’m going to be 5 years from now, so I’m frozen.” […]
WHY DID I DO THAT???
Two weeks ago. A Tuesday. Just after 4 p.m. I’m stopped at a red light behind an old, red truck. I’m zoning out, not fully present. I scan the back of the truck in front of me as I hum along to whatever was playing on Spotify. And then out of nowhere (like, literally out […]
